The Nigerian rulers at war? over what??

Laughing with my friends and mum,we suddenly looked at d muted television in my room to behold grown up men fighting. Turning up the volume, the cause of the chaos was the intention of the house of rep to increase their allowances from 45 million to 95 million naira. The fight displayed the brutal and forceful tactics things are imposed on nigerians. First we nigerians understand that most of our house of rep candidates are barely educated, bunch of touts that were put in seat for helping the people in power carry out their dirty deeds! What do foreigner think about this so called great nation, Nigeria? Do we want them scared? Or do we want them to conclude that nigeria is a joke? Knowing the disgrace from alameisiya escaping from the jail dressed as a woman or the umar muttalab incident. The rulers of Nigeria the so called *giant of Africa* fighting due to disagreement caused by their ridiculous demands for an increment with the obvious poor standard of living in the country! This country is blessed with resources enough for the citizens to live in a comfortable way,yet we are close to having the highest rate of under privileged people.. And in the mist of such crises, the predators(our leaders) can demand for such a ludicrous increment when we cant recall the last time the salaries of civil servants were increased! But we can recall fully well the selling of government properties to private sectors there by rendering countless number of citizens homeless! With situations like this stil at large, our extremely rich rulers at the other end decided to spice up their lifes by engaging in fist fights to the extent of ripping their shirts!?! Nigeria worries me..as much as I'd love to lie to myself that I am a proud nigerian, I am ashamed to be a part of it! How can a country be developed on be in good standing when it is being ruled by mostly uneducated people, leading to ridiculous situations like yerima deciding to marry a 13yr old girl or the upsurge of fuel prices with 3 oil refineries not working... My fingers wil go numb from typing so its best I stop here...

And they wonder why they are not making it...

Laying in bed with heavy eyes I just knew I had to write this else the zeal to share this precise experience will be lost..
Diving into an available taxi with a friend, we were stopped by the red light,my eyes began wandering due to boredom. I took interest in a particular young man looking exhausted from trekking under the sun or probably from long hours of hard labour..I began to wonder why God blesses some and leaves the rest to struggle or suffer..my heart went out to him and I felt so bad for not having the resources at this stage of my life to take care of the less privileged only for the light to turn green, as we were about to move the youngman looked into our taxi and called my friend and I "prostitutes".. My friend looked dumbfounded! But I immediately got the answer to the questions I had being asking myself about him whn I 1st set my eyes on him.. A man looked into a cab and saw two decent and well respectable girls and decided to call them whores due to illiteracy?ignorance?frustration? Knowing fully well we werent/ are not.. Are u still wondering why it can never be right with some people or why some struggle so hard yet are not making it?? Read thi blog properly and comeup with ur answers........

4wded msg! lips sealed!!!

So I was totali fallin for ds dude n after weeks n weeks of tryna get hz attentn, I finally had d chance 2 invite him over 2my crib..feeling all sexy n itching for him to 2 knw wt hez bin missin, I wrapped my towel round my skinny body pushin up my lil tits wv d lower part of d towel..I made sure my voice wz tiny n draggin u knw* in a sexy way*..went 2 d fridge 2 get him a drink..as I wz pourin d drink in2 d glass my towel fell wv my A_cup breast in d air..d worse part was..he was lookin confused n lost! Nt in a good way but in a *girl! Get those 2 seeds outta my face way*! Damn!! I must go for breast surgery!! In d meantime..m constantly dodging the guy..too embarrassed mehn!

Humans as dependent animals

Growing up, my dad always talked about how we shouldn't be too dependent and how friends weren't really needed. Each time he gave my siblings and i that particular lecture we were always angry because we felt it was impossible for anyone to survive in this world without friends or a friend to trust. After years of both ugly and good experiences with friends i have come to agree with my dad.
   All humans have faults and can never be satisfied, also every human being have got a little bit of what i call "the selfish syndrome". Humans  were created to be dependent, thats the main reason i think the saying 'two heads are better than one' came about. No man can buildup an organization alone neither can any man build his house himself.
       The major focus here is TRUST. Rage is a very strong emotion that can lead to murder, suicide and a lot more. Having someone to disclose all details in your life in the name of dependency is a big FEUX PAS! There are things that are better left unsaid. The confidante also being human might find the secret too heavy for the heart to keep and might either want to confide in someone else or disclose it due to outburst of rage. Life is better lived when details of your life is not flying  around.
      To end this, live a good life, that way u neither have secrets nor need a confidante! But if there is any, keep the power(information) to yourself !! bye!

Effects of time

When I was younger, I heard my mum ask my older cousin what kind of man she'd love to settle with..my cousin's exact reply was ' I want a tall chocolate skinned, well to do,educated, God fearing, young man'. My mum started laughing and told her she could as well create her own man.. And my cousin went on and on about how God knows her taste and would only grant her heart desires..I loved what she said then cause I've always had eyes for bigger things in life.. Seeing myself dating no other but the hunks, living in posh environments, attendin the best of schools..brap brapp!
7years later am 22 and my cousin is 30! I asked her the exact question my mum asked her years back over dinner today, and her reply was “see winifred, God did not favour we women with opinions or choices..that was why he created eve and gave her to adam without even giving her the choice Of determining if adam was her kind of guy or not. At this point in my life, anyone God gives me I'l take as long as he's not jobless and crippled!”. I laughed really hard after she said this because my she is really pretty and have always had the most desired men chasing after her every where she showed her face.. But being single at the age of 30 totally transformed the way she handles life or handled it. It got me thinking that I should probably stop being choosy as well and start dating regular but not random people and doing things that normal people do..my cousin said if the right man doesnt come forth soon she'l become an active member in the church to get one of the members to marry her. Imagine! Why do we ladies feel we are don't have choices to make or our opinion about things r not needed when we get to a certain stage of our lives? Is the maximum achievement in life really marriage? Off course marriage is supposed to be in everyone's agenda but when it is not forthcoming do we then begin to kiss ass for some random person to pop the question?
The answer is NO! As humans, we are all entitled to different opinions and choices! We should still have those intact even though we are 40 and things are not going as planned or falling into place.. My cousin doesn't agree with me but well...its my opinion and it STANDS!

recovering from a broken heart

Time they say heals all wounds..I believe partially
But I'd rather say that 'determination heals all wounds'. When am heart broken or when I feel rejected,I always feel like crying but giving it a 2nd thought; I actually don't cry because as a girl..u'l definitely go through series of heartbreaks,it gets me wondering 'do I rili have d strength to cry each time am heartbroken? And does crying actually solve anything?'The major step towards recovering is to write down your experience in the relationship..personally..I strongly believe in the part of the bible that says *unto every man there is a woman and unto every woman there is a man'. Instead of wasting your time amending what is to be discarded, fill ur head with thoughts like. 'If u have to chase some1 or play games or behave in certain ways for some1 to like you, then both u and the person are not meant for each other'. Make a list of mistakes u made and how u plan on correcting them so they don't affect your next relationship. There is nothing as great as being a realist! Sitting down,beating yourself waitinf for things to get back to the way they were never really helps anybody..there was a reason u came alone into the world..you were living fine before the person showed up,so why don't u continue from where u stopped when the person is no longer there? My point being...get a grip of urself n move on!! Nobody should be that hard 2 get over!!

crazy night out

Hello readers!
I was really love struck yesterday night n needed to shake it off!! So I hung with my girls and been so light headed, after bout 3glasses of d champagne I was out of this world! We were dancing all over the place maybe I created a wrong impression in the process cos as I stood u to use the bath..some dude I danced with for about 5min..came from behind,grabbed my ass *IN PUBLIC* lifted me up n planted a long kiss on my lip! I was extremely tipsy, embarrassed and outraged! Next thing I knew, I pulled off my shoe and created a big hole in the middle of his head..next ..m in bed typing this! Too shy to go downstairs to get the details of what really happened.. But am glad I gave him summin to learn from! *THE HOLE* muahahahahahahhaha #devil

dumb people dumb country

Ok...hate to post this here but 60% of Nigerians are dumb!! Why in the world would anyone think its alright for a man to give his wife out as a gift in the name of helping the family out!?! What happened to the vow ' for better for worse'? All that is to be done is look deeper and think harder the solution wil be right there waiting for you to claim it. The painful part is that the so called educated ones are seeing reasons..what in the world! Well Nigeria is frustrating but still a lovely country! Safe!

my life, my choice!

Ok...not saying I have never judged any body but why spend our time criticizing and judging others when we cant remember the last time we took a long look at ourselves... For instance I believe in freedom to live my life the way I want though not recklessly but just be able to make my own rules..I have always being different in the sense that I have never viewed things the way others do.. Should I now be criticised cause I choose not to be tied down by men that are willing to mould me into something am not all ine the name of respect, or meeting up to their standards and different other shits they've got listed, or cause I choose to dress in certain ways! I'd rather be free and have people "not more than too" I could call when I feel d need for a man's touch or dress according to my mood and what I feel comfortable in! If u dislike the way I am..then there is no other option except to jump off brooklyn bridge or something rather than going around judging me..! Hehehehe