Tuesday 6 July 2010

the skin colour and their different purpose

I chose to write this article not only out of personal experience but also from different experiences both of friends and random individuals..I have to begin with the fact that I love my body and practically everything about it but I particularly pay attention to my skin and mouth because I feel those are the two basic features of looking good! I had a reaction on my face, at first I didnt want to pay attention thinking it'd disappear in short notice but then it persisted for over a week, I then went to purchase some skin care products. As I walked into the shop (medplus), I was shocked at the number desperate and sad female faces that were there looking for solutions to issues they considered problems to their skin and general appearance. Still amazed, I walked pass an extremely pretty girl but almost fainted out of stench that was oozing of her, she stood aside while her mum was helping her speak with the attendants in the shop, then I began to wonder what was wrong. It couldnt have been out of her being dirty, I stared hard and noticed how bleached out her skin was..there were veins on the verge of popping out of her skin! Then I wondered why anyone will want to damage her skin so bad, in my point of view, the bleach made her look scary rather than look good and I am not talking about the stench yet! Diverting a little, most African women including myself have wondered why God gave the caucasians what appears to be everything! From their hair to their skin colour etcetera... But if we give ourselves the chance to reason wisely, we will see that our skin colour determines how good we look that is;we look as good as we do because of our skin colour..example; a dark skinned girl with really huge breasts, and african hair could be created with a dark skin probably because if she were white, her features wouldn't look as good as they do with a black skin and many more other reasons for our different skin colour. Yet, there are women darker than the soil trying to bleach themselves into being brighter than the sun, not caring about the process gradually washing up the melanin (pigment accounting for the dark colour of skin, hair, etc) then ending up with dead skin cells and weak skin leading to severe stench! All that is to be applied on dark skin are good moisturisers,shining oils to make the skin glow and regular bathing! And these are necessary so the skin doesn't look dirty. I personally feel black skin is the best kind of skin to have because it doesn't bruise as easily as the white skin does. Even if we psyche ourselves into believing the opposite sex is more attracted to light skin, may we remember the damages of trying to make a dark skin light....

Sunday 4 July 2010

it is more than you know

First I have to admit I missed coming to this place! So after long days of feeling jinxed, not knowing what to write about precisely,I finally got an inspiration! I was/am still stepping out of my boundaries by giving a dude the flashing GREEN LIGHT! Things were falling into place until I hit him up while his phone was with eerrrmmmm *eyes rolling* words cannot describe that fellow.. First I can not stand fixing up two people unknown to each other, I feel it's one of the most lame things in existence! Anyways, the dude started chatting about meeting me,"permit me to say that at times being extremely polite to dumb folks doesn't pose any effect..you have to go extra miles by hitting the hammer on the head of the nail for such to get your point". I was hesitant at first, then tried to be polite till I couldnt stand the foolishness any longer. I had to give him a piece of my mind, not in a rude way but polite enough for him to understand..next he called me a *bitch*. Thinking deep, why would some guy have full access to a phone belonging of another guy if they aren't so tight, then he takes a step further by wanting to meet a girl through a phone that doesn't belong to him..I narrated the story to the boy I was supposed to be liking and he got mad at me... All I could sense was foul play because as much as we try talking ourselves into believing relationships re personal, the friends of both parties have the power to some extent to determine the success or failures of relationships. Some friends will create instances enough for the girl/boy involved in the relationship to doubt their partners. But then again, Everything doesn't make sense because I believe if the boy had any form of respect for me or the girls in hiz contacts, his friend wouldn't have the effrontery to call me a bitch or even demand to meet me... Titilayo is an extremely smart girl so....need I write more? We all play games but let's not forget that some people are created to be smarter than the others